Monday, November 16, 2009

bizarro world at the barber shop

Today a bizarre thing happened. Habeeb and Sly were getting their military reg haircuts on base after we all ate lunch. When they were finishing up, Jman walked into the barbershop. He then climbed up into the barber's chair that Habeeb had just vacated. Then he tried to put on the barber's smock, and I helped him snap it in the back. We were all BAFFLED. This kid does NOT do haircuts, and especially not in a hair cutting place! I asked Jman if he wanted a haircut, including programming it into his ProLoQuo2Go, and he said yes. ????!!!!???? The problem was he still had his 'ears' on, and didn't really want to take them off (it'd be awfully hard to cut his hair with hearing protection on!).

Someone else came in for a haircut, and the lady barber, who was being AWESOME with letting Jman do his thing (what a rare and special treat to find someone so good!), asked Jman to move over to the next chair. It took him a couple times of hearing to understand, and then he moved on over. Into another barber's chair. Still amazing.

After another go at taking his 'ears' off, Jman decided to get up and move on out. Habeeb and Sly were done and ready to go. They started to head up the corrider to leave the building, but Jman decided to go back in. He sat down in the 2nd chair again, and put the smock back on. I asked again if he wanted a hair cut, and he said yes. Still not believing it, I pulled the leatherman micra out of my pocket and opened up the scissors. I gave his bangs a few snips, and he was liking it. ???!!!???

Then the lady barber (who was so awesome) suggested we let Jman hold her clippers with them turned on. Like I said, she was awesome! She was completely naturally tuned in to supporting Jman, allowing him freedom, increasing the opportunities for him to learn just enough without challenging him to 'behave' and without overwhelming him. What a rare and special gem!

So, anyway, Jman didn't want to hold the clippers. He wanted me to cut his hair with them. He tried to get me to cut higher toward the top of his head, but that would have been committing us to REALLY giving him a SHORT hair cut. Instead, I just clipped a few more bits from his bangs, leaving him a nice little wedge cut out right in the front. He wanted more, but I again told him the 'ears' would have to come off, and he finally decided he'd had enough hair cutting for one day. He took the smock off, and was ready to leave then.

Habeeb, Sly, and I are still in total SHOCK at Jman's adventures in the barber shop today! We're going to have to find out when the awesome barber lady is working again, and take Jman back and see what he does next time. Who knows--maybe someday the boy will actually get a REAL haircut! Wouldn't that be something?!?!

PS--Jman was having fun looking at his iPod/ProLoQuo2Go which he had turned on under the barber's smock. I suppose it was neat how the lit up screen showed through the smock. He really likes having his 'words' (though he still tries to take my iPod with the youtube not restricted!).

3 comments:

  1. WHOA, No WAY! This is huge. Maybe having a
    "voice" is opening up all kinds of new thinking/possibilities for him as well as all kinds of new confidence? What's your take?

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  2. I think the "voice" probably plays into it. He's also had time to get used to being around that barber shop, more so since Sly started getting military haircuts there for CAP. Plus the last couple times we cut his hair at home, Habeeb tried using the clippers on him. He's also been little by little getting slightly better about having his hair washed, though it's by no means a "prefered activity!" But indeed all those aspects are "history," and the ProLoQuo2Go is "news." :)

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  3. Oh my word. Vygotsky stated that thought and language are intertwined. I wonder if Jman's new freedom in expressing himself is giving him new thoughts about doing other things differently. This is so beyond cool, it's miraculous.

    That lady at the barbershop sounded wonderful--talk about a kindred spirit!!! Love her!

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