Same but Different

Folks on the autism spectrum have difficulty with changes. Because they are not very good at reading other people's perspectives or intentions, they are at a great disadvantage at dealing with differences or changes when they happen. Most of us will look around to see what others are doing, make a judgement call on why they may be doing that, and will tend to adjust our own behavior and thoughts accordingly, perhaps match what others are doing so as to blend in or maybe occasionally to go against the flow intentionally. But folks on the spectrum don't read others well, and thus don't have that extra info to help them process changes or challenges very well and adjust their actions and thoughts in relation to what others are doing or thinking. As a result, they will usually find one way of doing something, and do it that same way every time, regardless of what everyone else is doing or thinking because they aren't really understanding what everyone else is doing or thinking in the first place, or why. It's safer and more predictable to just do things the same way over and over. That's one of those processing differences for folks on the spectrum that lead to repetitive behaviors such as little kids lining up toy cars instead of playing out various games or scenarios with them.

Thus, I found it especially interesting last night when Jman began communicating to me about wanting some popcorn. Up until now, when using the ProLoQuo2Go, he has punched in a sequence in which he uses a short cut button for the phrase "I want" which takes him to a new page with choices such as a button for "to use the computer" or a category button for "something to eat," which in turn takes him to the "Foods and Drinks" page.

However, last night, Jman did it differently. First, he navigated to "Word Spaces," which includes categories for "Actions" (verbs), "I, You, They, plus" (pronouns), "Describers" (adjectives), etc--basically all the words accessible through their various grammatical parts of speech rather than group by topic (food, clothing, etc).

Jman then selected "I" from the pronouns section. I watched as he began searching for another word, first in Actions, then Describers, then Linkers (conjunctions), then back to Actions. I interrupted him and asked him, "What are you looking for?" He kept browsing, but said (just like P2G says it, of course), "want." So, his first inclination was right--it WAS in Actions, but he just missed it when he looked. I scrolled down with him and pointed it out, and he quickly punched in "want." Then he navigated his way back to the home page and through categories to foods and drinks, where he began searching through Desserts. I figured he was looking for popcorn, and offered that that would be under Snacks, not Desert. He quickly took that advice, jumped over to snacks, and plugged in "popcorn." Thus, he had his complete messgage: "I want popcorn."

Now, there's nothing new about Jman wanting popcorn. What is new is that he found a new way to put the sentence together, finding each word individually instead of relying on cheater buttons. It's also the first time he's ever used a pronoun as an individual word instead of part of a rote phrase. There have been a few times when I was messaging something to him that I have used the pronouns section with him looking on, but only because that was what I needed at the time, rather than having in mind a direct teaching of pronouns. It was also new for him to use a word from the Actions category as well. All together, Jman, despite his autism and despite having one way that works for asking for popcorn, created a different way to ask for the same thing last night, purely for the fun and challenge of doing it differently! That is AWESOME! (Note, I'm tilting my head back and to the left, with a huge smile and two thumbs up, just like the symbolstix icon for 'awesome' on P2G--Jman imitates the poses of the stick figures, and the 'awesome' pose is becoming a family favorite!)

But wait--there's more!

After Jman told me "I want popcorn" the new and different (but still the same words) way, he took his 'same but different' one step further. He cleared out the first message and punched in the sentence starter button for "Let's." Then he punched in the Actions button for "eat." Then he jumped back over to Snacks where he again selected "popcorn." His new same-but-different message: "Let's eat popcorn." That's when it REALLY struck me and reconfirmed that Jman was actually playing with language and finding different ways to get across the same meaning or thought. He wasn't falling back on just the same one rote expression that he always used in the past, "I want popcorn." He wasn't relying on one way of saying that expression via ProLoQuo2Go either, using the starter phrase button "I want." No, Jman was branching out into new territory, discovering adn sharing that there's 'more than one way to skin a cat,' and best of all, he was making that discovering on his own because HE wanted to, and not because someone else was drilling yet another rule into his head.

Last night really got me to considering how the ProLoQuo2Go is helping him to break language up into component words that can be rearranged and reorganized rather than as longer units of stock phrases. When you simply hear someone talking, it's hard to know sometimes where the 'breaks' are, particularly when you have difficulty with the language being spoken (which can be the case for your 'first language' if you have language processing issues or auditory processing issues). When things are written, it's easier to see the breaks in words because there are spaces between words, and other punctuation between sentences and phrases. But with ProLoQuo2Go, there's the added advantage of 'context' associated with the written word, because the little pictures with each word convey additional information that abstract letters of course lack. By fooling around with ProLoQuo2Go (or 'babbling' with it, as I term it), Jman is discovering 'words,' and he's discovering how to put them together to communicate thoughts, and that there's more than one way set of words or one arrangement that you can use to express the same thought. He's got the sound, the letters, the pictures, the organization/categorization of the spaces, and the physical motion of moving through the pages all working together for him to turn his brain on to communication and to make his own effective discoveries about 'same but different.' That is just AMAZING.